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My 30F boss (46M) told me I cannot leave him when I wanted to resign and said he trusts me more than his own wife and family. He is an extremely volatile man
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He is a very difficult boss, although a shark. I have never seen anyone so efficient in making money, solving problems, taking decisions (difficult ones) under tons of pressure. when it comes to business he never shows any emotion. he stays calm, calculated, even cunning dare to say. but when it comes to how he treats people he is volatile, impulsive, throws tantrums, threats, yells, accuses people of this and that. then he calms down after meltdown and is friendly again.
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he is the owner of the company and has over 170 employees. in the past 2 years he lost several assistants because they couldn't deal with him. I am not an assistant but I kinda do the work of one (and not only the work of the assistant but of any position left uncovered until HR support (he outsourced it and has contracts with a HR company) finds someone new.
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I make his coffee every morning the same way. Same coffee, same amount of milk and sugar. and last week he said: it taste like s#*t and thre it away. just because he arrived angry at the office in the morning due to a conflict with his wife regarding their daughter.
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I am by his side all the time and he openly said in front of everyone I am unique, smart and loyal and my dedication to him (not his company, to him personally is impressive). my coworkers avoid me, never invite me on lunch breaks so I spent even my break with him. I order food for both of us and eat eith him (unless he is moody and tells me to go the F out his office). It was my boyfriend's birthday and my boss knew, I told him about it and he said sure sure. And then, when the day came he absolutely needed me there until late (like 10 PM).
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Monday I openly tol him I consider resigning and he cancelled ALL HIS MEETINGS, everything so just he could spend hours convince me to stay and said I cannot leave him (him, not the company. that everyone is stupid here and everyone are backstabbers, including his own family that he supports finacially 100%. he begged, then threaten, then begged again, then offered me a substantial raise and I took it. He was so very nice to me the rest of the day. the next day he was the same old him. His wife came and I wanted to walk out as I understood she is upset about something and wants privacy with him and he said I stay and didn't want me to walk out. So she walked out and slammed the door.
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what happening and what to do? they pay now is REALLY great and honesty I feel so dependant on his validation as its hard to get it. he often when is in a good mood calls me the best, amazing, loyal, dedicated, his life boat and I also don't really mind if he touches me. he doesn't do it in a physical way. hand on shoulder or my arm for a few seconds. and when his otherwise cold and a bit cruel facial expression turns warm and into a smile just for me
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So lunch invitations vanish. Breaks get spent ordering food for the boss and eating in his office unless he is moody and says to get out. And she’s left isolated from the people who could offer perspective and tethered to the one person who benefits from her having none.
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A raise only makes the trap more comfortable, it doesn’t fix the problem. And that's why our girl should take the money and plan an exit. It’s either that or she stays and keeps being a lifeboat for a man who treats people like disposable tools until they become essential.
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